Tuesday Reading

11.06.2018
Learn to Be Lazy
… Discover the Value of Idleness Being born in the middle of the Great Depression means that the words “lazy” and “idle” take on special meaning. In the southeast Texas town of Shepherd where I first lived, regular jobs were few. My maternal grandfather had one of those jobs, railroad section foreman responsible for maintaining […]

10.30.2018
plus • sing
… a technique that allows people to iterate on ideas without using harsh or judgmental language. While used typically in teams and on the ideas of others, plussing works equally well on one’s own ideas – when one’s self critic can be particularly vocal. You may never have previously encountered the word “plussing.” Neither had […]

10.23.2018
cu·ri·os·i·ty
… a strong desire to know or learn something Previous Tuesday Readings have focused on curiosity,1,2,3 on the very related topic of asking questions,4,5 and the further related topic of psychological safety6 on numerous occasions. Given these six examples along with a larger number of additional Tuesday Readings focused on aspects of this topic I’ve not listed as References, […]

10.16.2018
A Chapter in my Leadership Journey
Network Director, Cross-country biker, Elementary School Bus Drive, Elementary School Bus Driver AND Network Director Daniel Schmiedt is the author of today’s Tuesday Reading. He is Interim Executive Director of Network Services and Telecommunications at Clemson University and an Elementary School Bus Driver. Dan is also a 2014 alumnus of the MOR Leaders program. This essay […]

10.09.2018
Tell Those Negative Voices in Your Head to Be QUIET!
There is nothing particularly special about hearing negative voices in your head. I suspect that most of us have, at one time or another. Some of us may even hear these voices frequently. And, some of these voices may be so strident as to lead one to disbelieve the credibility of any successes that she […]

09.25.2018
Sleep
… Just how many hours did you get last night? If you are like me, I typically answer this question by saying something like, “not enough.” Each of us by design, by inattention, or the events-of-the-day, end up trying, usually unsuccessfully, to cram more into each day than is reasonable, practical, of good for our […]

09.18.2018
Don’t Give Into Your Bias for Busyness
Greg Anderson is the author of today’s Tuesday Reading. He is Senior Consultant and Leadership Coach at MOR Associates, a role he has had since 2009. Earlier he served in senior IT leadership positions at the University of Chicago and at MIT. His essay first appeared as note to participants in a MOR leadership program where […]

09.11.2018
John McCain – An American Hero
Some two weeks ago, Senator John McCain died. While some saw him as a maverick, someone with a strong independent streak, he was also determined to do what he believed right, even at a high personal cost. He is an American hero – for his five and a half years as a prisoner in a […]

08.28.2018
Summer Vacation’s Over
… and School Will Soon Be Back in Session I’m sure that it is as hard for you, as it is for me, to realize that summer vacations are over, Labor Day is upon us, and children of all ages are going back to school. My middle three grandchildren are either at college or will […]

08.21.2018
Being Vulnerable
“Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.” – Brenè Brown The Merriam Webster Dictionary defines vulnerable as capable of being physically or emotionally wounded, open to attack and damage. Robert Stolorow,1 psychologist, author, and a founding faculty member at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Study, has […]

07.31.2018
Mistakes, We All Make Them
… Own them, learn from them, don’t repeat them mis•take noun an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong. “The only man [or woman] who never makes a mistake is the man [or woman] who never does anything.” – Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of the United States We all make mistakes, […]

07.24.2018
When I’m Called Upon In a Meeting Unexpectedly
… How Do I Respond? Recently, I came across a short essay by one of my favorite leadership writers, Paul Axtell. Axtell is an author of several books, including Meetings Matter: 8 Powerful Strategies for Remarkable Conversations,1 and a frequent contributor to the Harvard Business Review blogs. The piece that caught my attention is “How to […]

07.16.2018
Learning How to Learn
It’s hard to believe, but after 18 years of formal study, from first grade in a small East Texas school through doctoral study at MIT, I cannot remember ever having a class or having a teacher talk about learning how to learn. Perhaps that’s why Coursera’s MOOC “Learning How to Learn” has been taken by […]

07.10.2018
Watch Your Body Language
… Others Most Certainly Are Some 150 years ago, Ralph Waldo Emerson put it this way “What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.” What Emerson was saying is that the way you show up, your presence, can so over power what you say that your words have little […]

06.26.2018
Teams and Teaming
Today, most organizations, including a university’s IT organization, structure their work through a set of teams. Other examples include professional sports teams with their structure, their practice day-after-day of plays they may execute in the game, and a surgical team that performs the same procedure, for example, hip replacement, under tightly controlled conditions, perhaps multiple […]

06.19.2018
Good Questions
“True wisdom comes from asking the right questions.” Clayton Christensen Two weeks ago, the Tuesday Reading focused on some particularly insightful remarks made by a number of this year’s commencement speakers. Now, whenever you select a very small number of speakers, in this case only nine, from a very large […]

06.12.2018
I Just Received a Compliment
… How do I respond? Compliments are a good thing, right? Everyone likes to be recognized for a job well done. Especially from someone whose work you admire. They are a special form of positive feedback. However, many of us find accepting a compliment with grace to be a major challenge. Too often, our […]

06.05.2018
Commencement Thoughts
… Helpful thoughts for the next stages of your life’s journey Every year beginning near the end of May and continuing into early June, there is a flurry of activity at this country’s educational institutions. In the U.S., there are over 4,200 degree granting colleges and universities and over 20,500 high schools who each […]

05.29.2018
Memorial Day
Yesterday was Memorial Day, our holiday for remembering all those – some 1.4 million from the American Revolution until now – who gave their lives in conflicts while serving in our nation’s armed forces. The idea of having a time to commemorate those who have died in the line of duty while serving their […]