Today’s Tuesday Reading is from Kimberly Whitted, Director of Technology Infrastructure and Operations at Campbell University. Kimberly may be reached at [email protected] or via LinkedIn.
When my MOR cohort met in person, we were asked to share something about ourselves. Usually, I prefer blending into the background when meeting strangers, but I had recently started a new endeavor to engage in self-care: taking guitar lessons. This decision was spurred by a suggestion during the first Next Leaders Fellowship meeting when I was lovingly told, “You need a hobby!” Before the comment, I’d considered learning guitar, but those words prompted immediate action. On my way home from the airport, I stopped at a Guitar Center and bought a Yamaha acoustic guitar, thinking I could learn from YouTube. However, that plan failed, leading me to seek lessons at a local studio.
The studio’s teaching method, which involves learning familiar songs for playing in bands, initially seemed irrelevant to my solo aspirations. I only started these lessons for my own pleasure, to engage my brain in a different way. I had no desire or goal to put myself out there and be vulnerable in front of others. But, surprise! I ended up joining a band despite my initial reluctance. Learning new things, whether fun or professional, comes with stress. Here are some lessons I’ve learned that have helped me navigate new territory:
- Embrace Imperfection: Nobody starts perfect. It’s okay if every note isn’t flawless. Improvement comes with time and practice.
- Trust Your Abilities: Even if you’re not a guitar virtuoso, your fingers can learn new tricks with practice. The same goes for your mind!
- Listen to Encouragement: Others may see potential in you that you overlook. Believe in yourself as they do.
- Challenge Yourself: Find motivation and inspiration to push your limits. Committing to challenges can lead to growth and fun experiences.
- Embrace Awesome Opportunities: Don’t let fear keep you from trying something new and exciting. Stay open to challenges and enjoy the journey.
Despite my initial reluctance, guitar playing has become a significant part of my life. I’m excited to share that I recently completed a June show and am amazed at my newfound abilities and the growth they represent. So, from a hobby to a passion, I’m grateful for this unexpected journey.
Which resonates most with you when learning new things?
Last week, we asked about what helps build and sustain your resilience.
- 33% said disconnect to reconnect
- 25% said prioritize self-care
- 22% said reflect and reset
- 20% said embrace novel experiences
Relating last week’s reading about resilience to this week, as 20% of us shared, learning new things is a pathway to building our resilience through embracing new and novel experiences. Whatever pathways help us build resilience, making those into routine habits is essential to keep our resilience strong.